By Amy Cutler

I wonder if we women fully understand the greatness of our gifts and talents and abilities. We all have them and they are as unique as each of us, just like snowflakes! Do we bask in the diversity we share and yet see how there is one gold thread that continues to connect us… its our femininity! As we place ourselves in the ‘highest place of honor’ we will learn more about our specific gifts and the world is ready! Lets talk more about this gift of femininity. It is unique, precious, and sublime. It can have many different looks but energy never lies. It’s full of natural grace, goodness, and divinity. Femininity is not just lipstick, stylish hairdos, and trendy clothes. It is the divine adornment of humanity. It finds expression in your qualities of your capacity to love, your spirituality, delicacy, radiance, sensitivity, creativity, charm, graciousness, gentleness, dignity, and quiet strength. It is manifested differently in each girl or woman, but each of us women possesses it. Femininity is part of your inner beauty. Going deeper I will also say, one of your particular gifts within our feminine nature is the gift of intuition. I call it a natural knowing. It’s that first impression ALWAYS before we have time to “think about it”. It comes in quiet times and in moments there is a decision to be made we actually already know the answer before the end of the question. Follow it! It will NEVER lead you astray! Don’t 2nd guess it, don’t assume you don’t know, and don’t play like you never get it. You get it all the time! In fact, it comes so much all the time, some of us don’t even recognize it. We are living it moment-to-moment.

Many of us women have worked hard to move away from limiting beliefs we have of ourselves and others have for us. These limitations come in the forms of excuses and reasons that we don’t have what we truly want. Sometimes we even fight for these limitations when confronted but the truth is… down deep we want that freedom that is so limitless! Start looking for the simple ways you use your feminine intuition. “But how do I know my gifts?” I get asked that question a lot in my coaching practice and I say…

3 ways :

• start by seeing what it is you are drawn to that you love. What feeds your soul?

• Name out loud ONE character benefit or spirit way of being you see in yourself. Are you courageous? Kind? Nurturing? Inspiring? Powerful? Radiant? Joyful? Name ONE out loud –right now– that resonates with you. Doesn’t that feel great! Now name another and another!

• Write it down then put it in this format:
I AM a (name 3 or 4) ______________, _____________, ___________, ____________ woman of LIGHT!

(For example: Here is my contract statement:
I AM a radiant, nurturing, inspiring, powerful woman of LIGHT!)

Do it! Right now, fill in the blanks! This is your new contract statement to yourself! Tape it up, memorize it!

As you read this, write this and say this, notice what happens as you ARE this. There is nothing to BECOME! Just BE! Seek that divine femininity. Allow it to penetrate your world. The women I know who have adopted this knowing and practice have replaced the old belief systems with their knowing and contribution and they are the most attractive women and completely irresistible.

Use your smiling loveliness to bless those you love and all you meet, and spread great joy. Femininity is part of the God-given divinity within each of you. It is your incomparable power and influence to do good. You can, through your supernatural gifts, bless the lives of children, women, and men. Be proud of your womanhood. Enhance it and use it to serve others. This world needs these divine gifts that you and only you have to offer!

With my warmest regards & yummy love,

Amy Cutler
Ideal Life Results coach & mentor